Saturday, May 30, 2009
Children without fathers....how to give them inspiration.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Ladies, you need to check this out and get real.
Josh911 - An advisor on KEEN wrote this. I think this is fantastic wisdom written for the ladies. After all, it was written by a man and his perspective. Bravo and kudo's to Josh911!
Very True statements which you Ladies need ta take a look at!!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Do you like the color green?
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Astrology-what it is, how it works and affects you.
Is it possible to chart our course through life by monitoring the heavens? Astrology is the study of the relationship between planetary motion and life here on earth. Some people believe so deeply in this pseudo science that they consult the advice of astrologers before making any critical decisions in their life. In this article, we’ll explore the mystery of how the planets and stars impact the future.
Astrology is a group of systems, traditions and beliefs by which astrologers acquire information about a person’s personality, strengths and weaknesses. The zodiac is the belt or band of constellations through which the sun, moon and planets transit across the sky. Astrologers noted these constellations and so attached a particular significance to them. The main traditions used by modern astrologers are Western, Chinese and Indian astrology. Indian and Western versions use an astrological chart or horoscope for an event based on the position of the sun, moon and planets at the moment of the event. Indian astrology uses the sidereal zodiac, linking the signs of the zodiac to their original constellations, while Western astrology uses the tropical zodiac.
Practitioners of astrology believe that the positions of the planets affect nearly every aspect of a person’s life. Each planet is associated with a sign and a different energy in life. It assigns meaning to each unique time so that we can understand its special significance in our lives and act accordingly. It presumes that a meaningful link exists between exactly when someone is born and the qualities inherent to his personality. Astrologers study our birth charts to gain insight into our potential gifts, challenges, opportunities, internal conflicts and difficult lessons. By using astrology, we can learn more about ourselves and what we may expect during particular periods of time, so we’re able to behave more consciously and increase our likelihood of achieving personal satisfaction.
Astrologers gauge timing based on knowledge of how planets act when traveling through the different zodiac signs. This is from where the idea that astrologers can predict the future is derived. The term zodiac denotes an annual cycle of twelve stations along the ecliptic, the apparent path of the sun across the heavens through the constellations that divide the ecliptic into twelve equal zones of celestial longitude. The zodiac is the first known celestial coordinate system. The sign that a person is born under in believed to determine their personality traits. For instance, people born under the astrological sign of Scorpio are believed to be forceful, intuitive and passionate while someone who is a Pisces is supposed to be sensitive, kind and unworldly.
Astrology is not meant to predict the future. Instead, individuals are supposed to use the information provided by the heavens to make good decisions about their life. The outcome of one’s fate is still a matter of personal choice. While astrology may seem implausible to some people, others truly believe that their destiny is written in the stars.
I hope this helps explain a few things about astrology. There are quite a few reputable advisors on KEEN and elsewhere who work with and do astrology charts, if you are interested. Brightest blessings.